Sometimes it scares me to intuitively know so much about people while they have no idea that I’m picking up on every little detail about them. Do you have a blog? I’m understanding more of who I am the older I’ve gotten. Making new friends can be daunting, even online. However. This is my superpower! When a woman walks in a room, men are suddenly armed with sleuth-like deduction skills. I feel like the little things I do for my own personal hygiene are more than just things I do for myself at that point. Did anyone ever have that feeling when they meet someone for the first time or even pass quite an ordinary looking person in the street, they shudder or the hairs on the back of the neck stand up – a visceral reaction? Like a super power! He notices environments more and I notice emotions more. If a guy notices a small change in your appearance or a seemingly insignificant aspect of your outfit, he's probably totally smitten. During the year or so that we’ve known one another, I’ve seen that this particular friend notices other things, too. ... it really opened my eyes to the fact that people do notice this. X enjoyed life, family members and many friends. Most common death notice includes the photograph of the deceased person in black and white, the name of the person below, and the date of passing to avoid confusion to over whom has died in the same day. She could tell the difference between my usual peaceful-quiet-face, and my angry-quiet-face. Friends putting you first. Small things like getting a run-out or taking a catch makes the other boys try and lift their standards. One of the best parts about being an observant introvert is that we can make fellow innies feel seen. This is where you can put up small reminders of things that make you feel grateful. If you love being a parent, leave a note in your child's lunchbox or … 48. We all get overwhelmed sometimes, because, as 17-year-old Augustus Waters points out in The Fault in Our Stars, “The world is not a wish-granting factory.”. I am not the type of person who loses things and I keep my things very organized so I notice if things are missing. Definitely an environment noticer. This summer, as I was rubbing elbows with other bloggers, I met Erin. You're like the girl of his dreams. If so may I have the link? To finally find out over having walking the planet of ours for over a half of a Century it is like a breath of fresh air to finally realize I am not alone. What makes sense for both of us in our interpretations is completely opposite yet if known or understood and accepted it becomes more like a Rosetta stone to understand our unique perspectives and goes a long way in moving a relationship forward. To be honest, being the only one who can see these things feels like I speak another language from everyone else. Detection of hidden meanings in sentences is really something I cherish, since that helps me to see if someone is hurt or needs a comfort. I am a retired RN. Or the guy in the blue dress shirt and dark jeans?”, She observes the world around her with the same attention to detail. 49. “The small things of life were often so much bigger than the great things… I do however have concluded that regardless of how we process. I notice everything now that is the tiniest bit out of order. J. D. Vance You could you "clumsy" for hurting physically, and "tactless" for hurting emotionally.See the following from subscription-only LDOCE: tactless (adj. 10 Things the Nicest People Never Do What you do is important, but what you choose not to do also helps define you. I did a test the other day on reading facial expressions and passed with flying colors. Both. I wanna hear from someone who is just like me.. Thank you. yes so when that person is close to me noticing emotions seems quite scary and that which makes me to stop socializing or not even socialise but i do care and want to help but when that person feels irritated or upset i cant its truely scary. Was very popular. We have compiled a list of 22 things you will have probably seen at some point but never noticed before. Posted by 3 years ago. But I have had to utilize my “superpower” of reading some folks who were very close to me. Greek (modern Ελληνικά, romanized: Elliniká, ancient Ἑλληνική, Hellēnikḗ) is an independent branch of the Indo-European family of languages, native to Greece, Cyprus, Albania, other parts of the Eastern Mediterranean and the Black Sea.It has the longest documented history of any living Indo-European language, spanning at least 3,400 years of written records. Well, i don't think there's an actual name for the person but the process itself is called hyper-focusing. Noticing and being observant takes energy. This is so great! When detail-oriented people simultaneously look at the big picture and its details, they can … I wonder if it increases with age. I understand you completely Ashley! Have you experienced trauma ? to know who the person is or what the thing is that you are seeing, hearing etc because you have seen, heard etc them before. He sees the color, the shine, the style, and if he gets close … I am a natural at this! 2. We can get rid of the trash in our life. Absolutely, (almost) all the time. The crowd in the restaurant seem to melt away when I’m with my adult children trying some crazy new food they like. Overall, our ability to pick up on what others miss is a major asset for introverts. That’s why saying nothing often seems the best course of action. 1. Just like everyone else. – Vincent Van Gogh. Like there was someone who was interested in how I looked or … You may not notice them, but people are watching you and critiquing your behavior. But my realization happened almost overnight. As a highly sensitive INFJ, I can definitely relate to picking up on things that others often seem oblivious to! To me, it feels like I am merely a passive observer, watching everything go down exactly as I knew it would. I don’t know how many other introverts have found the people around the relying on us to keep tract of the details. Given the chance he'd pursue you. I have a strong need not to be around people that are emotionally harmful as I literally feel ill around them and need days to recover. Erin has a whole blog dedicated to noticing the little things, appropriately titled notice the LITTLE things. When I am at work, I find myself observing more about some peoples’ emotions, especially those that are closely related to my work. I can see what people are hiding and it sometimes it feels good being the only one who can see people’s problems, and sometimes it doesn’t. I notice if a button is open in someone’s clothes. I know that i am strange if that is the correct term, maybe different would be more appropriate. You could say I’m an intuitive. It was as though I woke up and “Poof!” My life and who I am made perfect sense. As a highly sensitive INFJ, I can definitely relate to noticing many things that others frequently seem oblivious to, both in the surrounding environment and in others’ emotional states. If I sense that someone is sad or upset, I try to comfort them, or simply provide a listening ear for their struggles. I notice more about emotions that people currently feel. Sometimes, I kind of know that a little argument will become big. Noticing the small things won’t change the world, but it will change how you see it. (haha, hope this sentence makes sense ) Reply Made fried chicken for the first time how does it look? Let someone else have the closer parking spot. Me noticing things others don’t in business … well you’d think that would help me but unfortunately due to lazy status-quo people, I can be annoying and a threat to people’s plans. She was right. We asked the dudes at guyspeak.com (read more about them here), for their take on this dating conundrum: Close. I, most definitely, notice people..no wonder am so interested in human behaviour. Our egos are really tricky little devils. It’s also the case with me as well, I am much more observant on emotions, rather then the environment. I noticed recently as sort of break through between INFP’s and INTJ’s communication styles, and that is the filters by which we use, INFP’s tend to filter everything by way of feelings/emotions and INTJ’s by rational thoughts and logic. Do some guys hide their interest and reveal it gradually? 53. 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